The preamble:
Mr #29 and I had been bantering to and fro by email and text for a few weeks, and despite slightly poor texting etiquette, on the whole we seemed to have a fair amount in common, he seemed like a good enough sort so we arranged to meet. Slap bang in the middle of Christmas. Pretty brave move, for both of us...!
Mr #29 and I had been bantering to and fro by email and text for a few weeks, and despite slightly poor texting etiquette, on the whole we seemed to have a fair amount in common, he seemed like a good enough sort so we arranged to meet. Slap bang in the middle of Christmas. Pretty brave move, for both of us...!
The man:
Age:37Profession: Freelance web designer for a TV production company
Random factoid: He had the roundest face I have ever seen on a real life human being. It was literally a perfect circle; the moon, with hair. Amazing.
The date:
We met outside the station and although we'd both clocked each other standing in the cold trying not to look conspicuous, we had to send the cursory identification text just to avoid that eternally embarrassing situation of 'Hi, are you Mr #29? 'No, I'm not'; stranger clearly knows you're on an interweb date; you die inside.
Apart from his perfectly circular visage that I have previously mentioned, he also had an awesome head of curly hair and one very pretty set of baby blue peepers on him. He was definitely a lot cuter than I had been expecting, even though he wasn't a lot taller than me, he was cute enough for that not to matter.
We ambled off to one of my favourite pubs, although once in we did a prompt 360 when we realised a. there were no seats, b. it was playing Slade so loud our chances of conversation were drastically low and c. 90% of the revellers looked and smelt but a cider away from sick. Not to matter, the next pub along was both with-seat and without-cider-sick. Bonus.
I have to say right now, this will be a relatively short write up. Not because he had nothing to say. Oh no. He had plenty to say. We covered everything from John Terry to Twitter, Mexico to Masterchef, and football to Facebook. But I have to say, I can't fault the guy. He was cute, polite, bright and really good company. We chattered non stop for a few drinks, time at the bar was called, and we went our separate ways, snog-free but smiling.
Memorable Quotes:
He was so nice and normal, I literally don't have anything to add here. Genuinely.
Events of note:
Again...he didn't fall over drunk, didn't spend the night talking to my chest, didn't offend me, had no errant bodily functions and didn't appear to have a criminal past. I think this is probably also notable in itself.
The Verdict:
Well 52 First Dates readers, I feel in some ways I've let you down here; by going on a date with someone rather nice, and not having some ridiculous anecdotes to take away from the evening. But for me, this just goes to show quite how many 'unusual' dates I have to go on to meet someone pleasant, and out of the 29 dates so far, he's one of only about 3. Those aren't great odds. So I suppose the question now is would I see him again? Yes. Did I fancy him? Yes, I think I probably did. Was he good company? Yes he was. Did we have any ROFL moments? No, sadly not. Was there chemistry? I don't know, I really don't know. But I'd certainly be up for meeting him again just in case. But the kicker is he's off to Mexico for 3 months next week, so whatever happens, I'll have to hang on a little bit and keep on dating and see what happens when he's back in Blighty. But I think this is where time really tells.
As I've mentioned before, I'm not going to be chasing anyone for a second date over the course of 52 First Dates, as I've done on many an ocasion in my undignified past. I'd like the guys I meet again to want to meet up enough to actually ask the question, which funnily enough seems to be rarer than you might think. I've had a few pretty successful dates before where they've just not been arsed to get in touch again which questions both their motive and I suppose also my view of how well the date went. So I guess for now, this is a 'watch this space' scenario. But if this is as far as it goes, I'd just like to thank Mr #29 for being nice, normal, and nothing like Mr #28. Faith in men once again restored. God bless 52 First Dates.
i like the way you write
ReplyDeleteAwwww so lovely to have a nice man for Christmas, do you think there is any chance he is actually Santa Claus in disguise??
ReplyDeleteInteresting question Kate...he did have a belly like a bowl full of jelly.
ReplyDeleteOh. Dear. God.
Good on him! Keep dating, I kinda hope he comes back from Mexico and you both pick up where you left off!
ReplyDeleteAw I'm genuinely so happy for you! It's so weird isn't, when you meet a 'nice man', how you realise how bloody rare that is. We've been led to believe that most men are nice, it's only the odd few bastards, when in reality, actually meeting someone lovely, who is nice, and you're attracted to, is actual gold dust.
ReplyDelete'But he's off to Mexico for 3 months next week' doesn't fill me with much joy though. That's just my cynical experience of what happens when one party goes on holiday/home for a few weeks. i.e it all goes tits up.
Wait til he gets back then see if he contacts you. It might be worth breaking your rule for though... few and far between is all I'm saying...
oh the world is missing nice and normal men xxxxxx
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ReplyDeleteWoohooo! Glad to hear that Moonface restored your faith in the dating scene, here's to more 'normal' dates this year!
ReplyDeleteHey! Where's the date for this week? Did Moon Man steal you away?
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Sadly he cancelled last minute and no time to get another in. But fear not, I'm going on one tonight and have another this week to make up for it :-)
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